If I attempt to bring a focus to gay male community building I find I am being chastised for wanting to have that focus. Also, as a gay male, I often feel very isolated from gay men in all the spaces dedicated to LGBT generalities.
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Want an LGBT center here? It’s not going to have full time paid positions. It’s still a small town, a small town has limited resources no matter how progressive it is. However, when you’ve grown up here and tried really hard all your life to build community here, you see some limitations that this town has. I am grateful and fortunate to of had that experience. While the rest of my family was conventional southern Baptist conservatives, my mother was the complete opposite. I was raised by a New Age/Pagan, single, small business owner, hippie, alternative, Asheville mom. As someone that grew up here, I can say I am definitely a product of its culture. Or at least this is the identity Asheville attempts to convey to the tourist industry. Ashevillians, particularly ones that are newly moved here, feel proud of their counter-cultural identities that unite against conventional southern bible belt conservativism. All of that said, I have given up on Asheville and feel all my passion for “gay community” is wasted here, and here is why.Īsheville is a quaint small town, full of liberals, diverse unconventional spiritual/religious identities, and outcasts that do not fit into the surrounding southern bible belt culture.
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We were the first city in the south-east to approve same-sex domestic partnerships (shortly after it was over turned by controversial “Amendment One”) back when gay marriage was not yet law of the land. We were called a “cesspool of sin” by evangelical politicians in our state capital because of how queer we are. Asheville, NC has been called the gay capital of the south by some tourist magazines. That said, I grew up in a pretty gay friendly (or at least mostly friendly) environment. If there is a gay who is pretty much about “all gay, all the time” that would be me.
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It doesn’t take long after getting to know me how much passion I have about the “gay community.” All the academic research I have done has related to it, I am grooming my career as a counselor to focus on it, I started and ran and LGBT organization in my undergrad days.